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April 30, 2013 by Amy Shanks Leave a Comment

BULLYING IN THE WORKPLACE

BULLYING IN THE WORKPLACE

“If you’re horrible to me, I’m going to write a song about it, and you won’t like it.  That’s how I operate.”

Taylor Swift –“Why You Got To Be So Mean?”

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You probably aren’t a songwriter or a singer but I’ll bet you can identify with being in the position of being bullied   Schools are usually the site most people associate with bullying, but the workplace sadly can also be a fertile environment for bullying.  I suppose those school yard bullies have to go somewhere when they grow up.

The National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health reports that 25% of participating companies reported some degree of bullying had occurred in the preceding year.   Bullying occurs at every level, can be hard to identify and even harder to manage.  Unnoticed it can have devastating consequences resulting in errors, poor client satisfaction, increased costs and high turnover rates (crisisprevention.com)  feeding into the War on Talent I blogged on recently.   Companies should be proactive in addressing this issue and realize that is a type of civil rights violation.  The Workplace Bullying Institute (yes, there is such a place) notes that during good times abused workers  tend to leave positions in which they feel bullied but in a down economy, many feel that they have to stay because their options are limited. (Libertymutual.com/responsibility)

Twelve states currently have 17 active bills which target an “abusive work environment and abusive conduct” in the workplace   Louisiana currently does not have such a bill but the initiative is there for all states to join in. These Healthy Workplace Bills give four classes of abusive conduct that are actionable:  “1.verbal abuse, 2.conduct that is threatening, intimidating or humiliating, 3. work interference, 4. exploitation of known vulnerability, physical or psychological.”

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**Ronald Riggio in February 2010 “Psychology Today” identifies some typical, unacceptable workplace behaviors that are types of bullying:  Threats  such as docking an employees pay;  The Silent Treatment – stopping talking when the victim enters the room or lowering voices and giggling;  Rumors –spreading information to tarnish someone’s reputation;   Sabotaging work –altering the victim’s work to make it unacceptable.  Riggio recommends visiting the site kickbully.com to identify causes and consequences and  ways to fight back.

Marilyn Astin Tarlton Partner/Catalyst at Attorney at Work gives some advice on confronting a bully in the work place which can be difficult since the bully is often in a position of power.   Some dos and don’ts :  Do keep a record /journal of things said or done that  you consider to be bullying, choose a time when you can be unemotional and meet face to face.  And explain what you want to change.  It is less threatening to use “I” language such as “I would appreciate it if you would ____, or I feel ___________ when you ___________.  Do be aggressive.  Call the bully out but stay calm

Don’t expect colleagues to support you.  It would be great to have others express their dissatisfaction but not everyone is prepared to face the possible consequences.  Don’t back down and don’t be  surprised if a confrontation does not go smoothly and produce immediate and tidy results.

And finally, DO be prepared for consequences that may force you to find another job.  

Tom Field in Success Unlimited makes some good points to ponder.

“IT IS THE LACK OF KNOWLEDGE OF, OR THE UNWILLINGNESS TO RECOGNIZE OR THE DELIBERATE DENIAL OF THE EXISTENCE OF THE SERIAL BULLY WHICH IS THE MOST COMMON REASON FOR AN UNSATISFACTORY OUTCOME FOR BOTH EMPLOYEE AND EMPLOYERS.

AND

“BULLIES THRIVE WHEREVER AUTHORITY IS WEAK.”

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Filed Under: Human Resources, Work Culture Tagged With: Bullying, Bullying in the Workplace, Work Culture, workplace violence

December 12, 2012 by Amy Shanks Leave a Comment

HOLIDAY OFFICE PARTY MISHAPS

Tonight we’re going to party like its 1999!  Let’s NOT.office party drunk

 

You moon the wrong person at an office party and suddenly you’re not ‘professional’ anymore.

How come stupid things seem so smart while you are doing them?

 

Haven’t gone to your office Christmas party yet? Awaiting an office New Year’s Eve Party?   Take some time to think about this unique “social” situation.  Remember the operative word in office party is “office.”  Susan Adams of Forbes Magazine stresses that these are professional functions and even though they are relaxed and designed to be fun, remember you still must be a professional.  Listen as much as talk. And talk about safe topics like movies, books, hobbies – NEVER religion or politics.

 

Social media is always lurking and you are just a handy cell phone video away from being a u tube sensation, possibly an unemployed one. Some golden rules for holiday party etiquette are simply common sense and proper etiquette in any setting, but it doesn’t hurt to give some thought to these suggestions just in case the hustle bustle of the holidays have given you a brain fog.

  1.  Don’t drink too much – in fact, don’t consume too much of anything; don’t hover over the bar or the buffet table.  Stick to a two drink maximum.  If you know you might have a problem, stay home.
  2. Be prepared for small talk – Have some topics in mind. Strike up conversations with people you don’t know.
  3.  Keep your hands off and eyes up.  Even if a female coworker is showing skin and possibly flirting, remember your sexual harassment training.
  4. Don’t skip the party – see exception in rule 1.
  5. Exit early.  Make an appearance, keep it professional, navigate the party like a job.

A  few of our favorite dos and don’t s for employees at holiday office parties (sourced from a Top 10 list courtesy of Fox Business)

Some of these are repeats of warnings to limit alcohol and the need to cultivate the art of appropriate small talk.   See if you agree with them?

Do make proper introductions – prepare ahead and practice recalling names.

Don’t talk gossip, politics, or religion.

Do put away your phone.  You don’t want to look distracted or bored.

Don’t bring gifts to bosses and managers, unless the group has gone in on one.

Do dress appropriately.  Err on the side of being more formal.

Do say thank you.  Seek out those responsible for planning the party and thank them for their efforts.  Consider following up with a written note.

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I’m guessing that you are remembering some hilarious faux pas, indiscretions, bloopers, misjudgments, and social blunders that you have witnessed at office holiday parties in the past.  What great water cooler stories have come from those!   I don’t know how much validity is found in magazine surveys , but “Men’s Health” recently reported that 44% of men admitted to “hooking up” at the office holiday party – SCARY.  Did they provide people and company names in those surveys?

SO —THINK BEFORE YOU PARTY.   EVERYONE WANTS THE HOLIDAY PARTY TO BE MEMORABLE BUT NO ONE WANTS TO BE THE REASON IT WAS.

 

Additional Resources:

Passing Out, Making Out, and More: Holiday Office Party Confidential 20/20 ABC News Video Clip: Holiday Party Confidential

 

Filed Under: Human Resources, Work Culture Tagged With: holiday office parties, holiday party etiquette, jobs and office parties, office party mishaps, party animals

September 26, 2011 by Amy Shanks Leave a Comment

CAN YOU TEACH OLD DOGS NEW TRICKS?

Since 2010 when the baby boomer generation began retiring in record numbers the workforce changed and continues to change as more and more competent workers redefine “work.”

This can be good news to employers who will now have a pool of available workers (recently retired but still wanting work) and for whom money is no longer THE most important factor in choosing a job.  Boomers, many of whom have left long term positions early or are eligible to leave, should be looked at differently.  Do you want to retain baby boomers eligible for retirement or do you want to consider them for new hires?  Well, maybe.  The sheer numbers of these employees have caused some two dozen industries to create an organization– the Alliance for an Experienced Workforce – its purpose to find creative ways to retain baby boomers.

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Working with Baby Boomers, can you teach an old dog new tricks?

So, what do these older workers want?  How can they be retained or rehired by new companies avoiding what some business analysts are calling a huge knowledge gap?”  Research shows that these potential and recent retirees want “quality of life.”  Part time work, flex scheduling and job sharing are all a trend driven by this demographic-many of whom cannot financially afford a full retirement or are just not ready to slow completely down.

Gen X managers are faced with the challenge/opportunity presented by this talent pool of older workers.  Managers can tap into this employee  resource by creating a climate for the older worker, keeping them active and productive and thereby benefiting from experience that is invaluable.

Think about some specifics to remember when hiring and managing workers much older than you – think telling your mother or father what to do!!

  •  Avoid stereotypical thinking.  Older workers are as varied in personalities as are workers in every age group.
  • Communicate clearly and specifically.  Don’t say “take care of this for me.”  Give a specific request with a specific date of completion.
  •  Have an awareness of range of ages that classify one as an “older worker.”  A “young” recent retiree of 55 will need to be treated differently than a worker of 70+ who just wants to keep active or may need to work.  Each group will require different management approaches, just as a recent college grad of 22 and a 35 year old worker are treated differently.
  •  Respect the life experiences of those who have “been around the block” and learned from the “school of hard knocks.”
  •  No matter their age or prior experiences, expect to train older workers.  The up side, of course, is that training time is usually reduced.
  •  Be aware of and address these workers security needs such as medical coverage ad financial planning.
  •  Motivate them – that is a manager’s job after all.  They may not be expecting to advance with the company but remember to recognize them when they do a good job.
  •  Don’t be concerned about your image as “the boss.”  Most of them were bosses at some point themselves.  Just lead the department – no need to posture.  These workers get the hierarchy of corporate life.
  •  Be flexible when at all possible.  Remember that flexibility is important to workers in this phase of their life.  For most, it is more important than money.

This does not necessarily translate into a shorter work day!!  Think creative scheduling that gets the job done.

  •  Consider allowing the older worker to mentor younger workers.  Most are eager to share knowledge and experience.  Of course, managers have to get a sense of who is able to mentor and who is receptive to being mentored.  This is where a manager needs to use his people skills.   You don’t want a mentor who is going to bore with stories about the “way we used to do it,” or has a condescending “know it all” attitude.

Do older workers still make good workers or good potential workers?  Of course they do, but managers need to keep in mind that they also may require a somewhat different type of management.  As these baby boomers redefine work, don’t forget you may want to consider making an effort to retain them or even hire them for available new positions.

 

Filed Under: Human Resources, Work Culture Tagged With: Baby Boomers, Gen X, Gen X Managers, Older Workers

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